People confuses "love" with "want".
When you fall in love with someone. You actually fall in "want". That felling is not love.
Love is not physical attraction. That is "want".
There is no love at first sight because "love" doesnt need sight to "love" someone.
Love doesnt cares how you look like. Love doesnt tries to control you. Love sets you free.
Love is best described when you care for a child or a pet. Love doesnt ask for anything back.
You dont need to be loved back. You just love and its
unilateral.
"Want" instead needs and takes from you. "Want" Wants you to
give back what is given to you. "Want" is possesive.
"Want" is centered on the ego. So it is
egoistical.
Love is beyond the ego. There is
no ego when you love.