ambient gaslighting - Most people now know gaslighting, put simply, is when someone tries to make someone else question their reality. "
Ambient gaslighting" refers to the subtle undercurrents of mistreatment or disrespect that we experience in small doses and may not realize are a form of gaslighting.
Physician psychiatrist Dr. Grant Brenner coin the term.
Are you being
gaslit ?
Here are signs you're being gaslit, according to USA TODAY columnist Sara Kuburic:
You are often confused.
You are struggling to trust your memories or feelings.
You find yourself constantly apologizing.
You feel like you can’t do anything right.
You are often nervous, worried or anxious.
You don’t feel confident.
You struggle to trust yourself.
You constantly blame yourself when something goes wrong (even if it’s not your fault).
Example:
Ambient Gaslighting In the workplace. Executives may espouse
transparency, but employees may experience behavior contrary to to that.
In targeted marketing. "People may be confused as to whether
the ad they got is something they really wanted, or whether that desire has been planted in that.
In political news. Polarized politics have led to seemingly alternate realities that have only accelerated during the pandemic. Convincing opinion-like news programs or
unverified viral social media posts may make you question your beliefs.