the most noble of all qualities of a man. being a gentleman means being courteous, gallant
, selfless, kind, friendly, well mannered, ethical, and of strong moral fiber
a man should strive to be a gentleman for the betterment of women, not to attract women. (don't expect to attract women just because you are a gentleman, or expect recognition for your behaviour, or you're simply a poseur)
pretending to be a gentleman in an attempt to get women is looked down upon
Bob always holds doors
for others, offers friends rides if they need to get somewhere
, doesnt curse
in the presence of a lady, never speaks ill of others, and is general a gentleman.