when a female straps on a dildo and fucks a male in the poop shoot

Female Domination: A woman (or action in which a woman) dominates sexual interaction with her mate. See also dominatrix. This frequently (but not exclusively or absolutely) includes:

-) Humiliation of the sub. (submissive, slave)
-) Penetration of the sub. (incl. strap-ons, toys, etc).
-) Bondage / restraint of the sub.
-) "Water Sports"

Short for Female Domination. The most wonderful form of BDSM. Unfortunately, it is made fun of in many movies.
The dominate one (Madame, Mistress, Domina, Dominatrix, Goddess) have complete control over the slave, such as:

-Whipping/Spanking
-Riding the slave like a pony
-Put leash and collar on the slave
-Facesitting
-Humiliate
-Bondage/Blindfold/Gag
-Penetrate with strap-on
-Make slaves lick boots
-Dress up slave like a maid,animal, etc.
-Use slave for sexual favors

Some (BAD) dominatrices use slaves as "money slaves", and make them pay for everything. Usually scammers.

Mostly used in sexual games, but some people also have a 24/7 relationship, where the Dominatrix is in charge of her slave/s all the time.

In other words; femdom is most of the time amazing. Check out OWK.cz (Other World Kingdom) for one of the better websites. Other examples are "Whipped Ass" and "Men In Pain".

Femdoming is the act of female dominance. It originates in the BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism) community, where a dominant describes a partner who takes charge during consensual sex acts involving power, pain, or humiliation. The term femdoming refer also to the largest Internet FREE community femdoming.com who share tips and stories.

Woman dominator in S&M

An erotic phenomenon characterized by an exchange of power in which She claims authority and dominance over the submissive male; a consensual arrangement which differs dramatically from more overtly mainstream heterosexual sexual practices where the male is assumed to be the essentially dominant predator. Subby fantasies have been misinterpreted as being the essence of Femdom; they have fed the industry as a commercial phenomenon. His fantasies are not what arouses Her. Femdom porn represents the D/s dynamic to the same extent that hetero porn represents the dynamic of loving in conventional relationships; it doesn't. In the Femdom dynamic the male may be motivated primarily by his sexual fantasies, often of a masochistic nature, to the extent that these desires drive him to manipulate his female partner into taking the upper hand for his pleasure alone. But fundamentally, a Femdom relationship should be both theoretically and practically founded on Her needs, pleasures, desires, whims and caprices. Femdom as a lifestyle is founded on loving but firm Female authority, respect and devotion and altruistic service from Her partner, not on his sexual fantasies. A genuine submissive in an authentic Femdom relationship will strive to remind himself that Femdom is about pleasing his Goddess first and foremost to the very best of his abilities, making Her sexual needs more important that his own, and not offending her by making his submission all about himself.

Sexually dominate female. Lead role in the relationship. Normally includes BDSM, spanking, water sports, forced feminization of the sub as well as forced bisexuality. Sub can also be a cuckold. Most subs enjoy the forced dressing up and discipline in the way of regular spanking to keep the sub inline.

when a female wrecks a man in porn with a strapon.

Bullshit