This term mainly refers to white women that are tricked by black men with an inferiority complex into believing that they prefer white women to black women. They date these black men and are brainwashed into thinking they are better than black women. These women are usually obese and insecure and as a result of not meeting the weight standard of white men in their community go over to the black community to compete with black women for black men. This gives them a false sense of importance and relevance. They believe that because they possess white skin that black men will treat them better than they treat black women. But they are met with a
rude awakening when they find out that they got
the same black man that black women get. They support the black men financially, are left single moms to half black children then take to social media, i.e. TikTok, to complain about their their deadbeat black baby daddies. This type of black man is typically described as a
struggle dusty therefore the "preferred" white woman is a struggle preference.
Example:
Struggle preference: "
Oh, my God, Becky. Tyrone is treating me the same way he treated his ex black girlfriends. He doesn't pay child support for our three daughters and he never visits them!"
Becky: "Wow. That is totally insane. I thought he said you were, like, more submissive and feminine than his black girlfriends..."
Struggle preference: "I know, right?! He made me think I was better. I'm starting to think it was all a lie. I feel used. I believed him so I supported him financially for two years while was unemployed!"
Becky: "So, okay, I didn't want to tell you this before you guys broke up but I totally saw him kissing a black girl at
Six Flags while you were away visiting your parents in Vermont...while you were pregnant!
Struggle preference: Goes on TikTok to complain about the struggle dusty