On The Dl
The
DL or The
Down Low, like many terms and phrases in the American culture, can attribute their genesis to the Gay and Urban
Black community, The, "DL" has evolved to be used universally to refer to activities conducted secretly and behind the scenes. The DL can also refer to behavior described as slick or deceptive.The term has truly evolved. In recent times DL has gone from being used exclusively to describe covert male homosexual behavior of a man
fronting (portraying himself), as a heterosexual but in reality is actually a
closet Gay man, to now refer to any behavior, action, or behavior that can be described as secretive or deceptive.EtymologyDL or “Down Low”, attributes its genesis from the Inner City Black and Sub Culture. The Black community was slow to accept the male homosexual in their community so Black Men were maintaining a cover, by acting as they were only into the Ladies. Their homosexuality was secret and thus adopted the term, “Down Low” to refer to a man that is a closet homosexual or a man that engages in sexual relations with both male and female partners. The term evolved to identify such men as their female partners were discovering that their Man was subversively engaging in sexual relations with another
man on the side, (
on the DL) while their female partner was unaware of his behavior and sexual preference. Prior to the Homosexual descriptive, the term was used to describe: any kind of secretive, slick, and/or deceptive behavior.
DL
by MANJIII on Apr 04, 2020 20:27:21
DL
DL means
Down Low. This is basically a man who is seen publicly as
straight, identifies and ‘acts’ straight; but secretly is
attracted to or has sex with other men.
Example:
Kenneth: Oh Chris is so hot, why is he straight?
MJ: He’s
on the dl, he ate my ass out in the parking lot this morning.
DL
by Stratus Clouds on May 10, 2017 23:52:14
A "Straight" Man That Usually Has A Girlfriend Or Wife But, He Also Has A BoyFriend
On The Dl (
Down Low). Most
Dl's Aren't Gay Just Bisexual But, Afraid To Come Out Because Of Family Or Friends.
Example:
Leo: You I'm Talking To This Boy On SnapChat, I Think He's
Dl.
Chanel: Oh Shit Really Lemme See Him.
Leo: Look.
DL
by ra ra on Jan 04, 2008 08:36:42
DOWN LOW see also D low--Hidden, concealed,secret.Specifically used to refer
to covert male homosexual activity.Whether we're talking about guys who freak with their boys, or hustlers who are strictly "
gay for pay" Thanks to homophobia, bigotry and all that bullshit in their communities they prefer to keep things quiet:
On the DL.
DL
by Dorian and Jordan on Sep 14, 2006 17:18:36
Abbreviated for "
Down Low." Sometimes used to say that you are still
in the closet. Someone that is afraid to let the world know that they have sex with their
homeboys.
Example:
Homeboy 1: "Man I like what we really did last night! Your dick is
bangin!"
Homeboy 2: "Dude! Shut up! You know I have girlfriend. Don't say that in public, you know i'm on
the DL."
DL
by Hobo on Apr 11, 2004 14:00:37
DOWN
LOW- a secret
underground organization where straight, masculine, "
thug like" black men, often with wives and girlfriends secretly have unprotected sex with other black men- also known as "the DL".
Example:
#1: "Yo bro, where were you last night"?
#2: "Not with
mah girl- i was
layin it up
on the DL".
The DL
by Shanalya Emiglaiman on Apr 16, 2006 08:43:10
Men, usually black or latino, who partake in heterosexual relationships, but also engage in homosexual activities with other men at "oppurtune" times. These homosexual encouters happen purely for sex
not a relationship or emotional connection. Over
73% of black males, as reported on Oprah, are
on The DL.
Example:
J.L.
King on
Oprah, was once on "The DL."