The ugly truth that isn't in a movie with a happy ending is that
everything happens for a reason.
Romantically challenged is a nice way of saying a reject, somebody a lot of people don't want around, possibly including the people they are looking for romantic relationships with. Whether it's a male or a female, a reject is someone nobody misses when they're not around, though usually, most of the negative attention is directed toward males and hardly ever toward females for the same things (a double standard feminists don't mention). You hear about males nobody would miss, but you don't hear about females nobody would miss, since society instinctively thinks everyone has to protect females. That all females should be stood up for, and none should ever be stood up to. Females will of course always side with their own, but males are conditioned to do the exact same thing, that siding with or defending the female is always right no matter what, without questioning anything further.