exclus
slang for exclusionist. basically gatekeeps certain sexualities (mspec labels) that they deem unnecessary or harmful. opposite of inclus / inclusionist who include every sexuality, no matter the historic background or if it's harmful. most exclus and inclus agree that "bi/pan lesbians/gays" aren't valid, though.Exclus
Short for Exclusionists, this term refers to those who want to safekeep the LGBT community. The opposite of "Inclus" (or Inclusionists) who want to open the community to those that do not experience gender dysphoria or same sex / same gender attraction.
Exclus reject Cisgender Heteros (whether Allo, Aro, or Ace) from the community with the goal of keeping resources and spaces safe and focused on the needs and struggles of those who are not "Cishet". Exclus also reject microlabels beyond the LGBT as unnecessary, contributing to erasure of existing terms, and placing too much focus on label stacking as comfort object versus functional labeling for safety and community.
Some of the more widely know Exclu stances include:
-Asexuality is not inherently LGBT nor an Orientation, as it is a modifier to their experience.
-Bisexuality has always included Homo and Hetero attraction and allows for attraction regardless of gender. The existence of Pansexuality as a label undermines and erases this, and as such is unnecessary and performative.
-LGBT is the complete acronym. Some include the Q if it has been reclaimed as a term by the individual and they are not Cishet but labels beyond those are unnecessary and contribute to the community becoming a joke / losing focus on civil rights and protection. Exclus respect the wishes of 2 Spirit and Intersex communities not to be included as a default.
Exclus reject Cisgender Heteros (whether Allo, Aro, or Ace) from the community with the goal of keeping resources and spaces safe and focused on the needs and struggles of those who are not "Cishet". Exclus also reject microlabels beyond the LGBT as unnecessary, contributing to erasure of existing terms, and placing too much focus on label stacking as comfort object versus functional labeling for safety and community.
Some of the more widely know Exclu stances include:
-Asexuality is not inherently LGBT nor an Orientation, as it is a modifier to their experience.
-Bisexuality has always included Homo and Hetero attraction and allows for attraction regardless of gender. The existence of Pansexuality as a label undermines and erases this, and as such is unnecessary and performative.
-LGBT is the complete acronym. Some include the Q if it has been reclaimed as a term by the individual and they are not Cishet but labels beyond those are unnecessary and contribute to the community becoming a joke / losing focus on civil rights and protection. Exclus respect the wishes of 2 Spirit and Intersex communities not to be included as a default.
Example:
As an Exclu member of the LGBT community I want to ensure that our spaces do not include straight cis individuals.
As an Exclu it is sad to see Inclus suggest that by wanting to safeguard the community that we are somehow Trans exclusionary which is not treu.
As an Exclu member of the LGBT community I want to ensure that our spaces do not include straight cis individuals.
As an Exclu it is sad to see Inclus suggest that by wanting to safeguard the community that we are somehow Trans exclusionary which is not treu.
Exclus
A slang for Exclusionist, usually used on social media.
An Exclus is someone who doesn't want to confront their internalized transphobia and would rather gatekeep terms and sexualities that sometimes even aren't theirs instead of just include nonbinary identities.
Bonus: Nonbinary identities are included in every sexuality, even Straight
An Exclus is someone who doesn't want to confront their internalized transphobia and would rather gatekeep terms and sexualities that sometimes even aren't theirs instead of just include nonbinary identities.
Bonus: Nonbinary identities are included in every sexuality, even Straight
Example:
Bob: So I had this run in with an Exclus yesterday on my coming out post, these people overstep boundaries
Wade: No need to be so harsh, some are pressured, but yeah that is an assholesish thing to do
Bob: So I had this run in with an Exclus yesterday on my coming out post, these people overstep boundaries
Wade: No need to be so harsh, some are pressured, but yeah that is an assholesish thing to do
exclusive
The state of being in an unofficial relationship, or "talking", where both individuals agree to only get with one another. In other words, a relationship without a solid title but both partners agree to commit to each other to a certain degree.
Exclusive
n.
Pronounced (ex-KLU-ziv)
The state of being with one person, and only one person, without labeling yourselves as boyfriend and girlfriend.
Pronounced (ex-KLU-ziv)
The state of being with one person, and only one person, without labeling yourselves as boyfriend and girlfriend.
Example:
Jessi : Ryan and Linda are totally dating, why haven't they changed their facebook status'?
Kate : They're not dating, they're exclusive!
Jessi : Ryan and Linda are totally dating, why haven't they changed their facebook status'?
Kate : They're not dating, they're exclusive!
Exclusion
A violent act that occurs when certain people decide to go to the local bread bar without you, only to tell you moments before they leave.
Example:
An example of exclusion: "Hey, we're all going to the local bread bar today. Oh, no, sorry, you can't come."
An example of exclusion: "Hey, we're all going to the local bread bar today. Oh, no, sorry, you can't come."
exclusive
Have sex a lot and feel more obliged to please each other cause you're not actively seeking STDs from others at the moment.
Example:
"Do you want to be exclusive?"
"Yes but I don't know what I want from this relationship yet."
"I just need to feel more comfortable about going down on you."
"K."
"Do you want to be exclusive?"
"Yes but I don't know what I want from this relationship yet."
"I just need to feel more comfortable about going down on you."
"K."
exclusive
n
Pronounced (eks-KLU-ziv)
The state of being in a relationship with someone where you are officially boyfriend and girlfriend, and there is no-one else involved. Usually attained after going on a couple of good dates with someone.
Pronounced (eks-KLU-ziv)
The state of being in a relationship with someone where you are officially boyfriend and girlfriend, and there is no-one else involved. Usually attained after going on a couple of good dates with someone.
Example:
Jake: "Have you heard the news about Michael and Katie?"
Alice: "Yeah, I heard they've gone exclusive"
Jake: "Have you heard the news about Michael and Katie?"
Alice: "Yeah, I heard they've gone exclusive"
Exclusive
Example:
An exclusive young man that is PLAYA MADE straight from California coming with his exclusive younger twin brother that is only 60 seconds younger. THEY ARE VERY LOWKEY!
An exclusive young man that is PLAYA MADE straight from California coming with his exclusive younger twin brother that is only 60 seconds younger. THEY ARE VERY LOWKEY!