A male or a female can be abusive
, but since we live in a world where looks overpower
reality, women are perceived as all-innocent feeble
beings that have absolutely no idea what’s going on— ever. Men and women can come together to be abusive. Some people are forced to be abusive by other abusive people in order to avoid being abused. Only people that have experienced abuse know what this means— anyone else will be completely confused or siding
with the one who makes themselves look like the victim. Sometimes they do it by being quiet and ensuring that the jury
stands by them and sometimes they’re really good at crying and acting like they’ve lost everything despite being the one with more assets and more money and more social power.