Gaslighting
by Your Reality Check on Jun 01, 2009 14:57:45
A form of intimidation or
psychological abuse, sometimes called
Ambient Abuse where false information is presented to the victim, making them doubt their own memory, perception and quite often, their sanity. The classic example of gaslighting is to switch something around on someone that you know they're sure to notice, but then deny knowing anything about it, and to explain that they "must be imagining things" when they challenge these changes.
A more psychological definition of gaslighting is "an increasing frequency of systematically
withholding factual information from, and/or providing false information to, the victim - having the gradual effect of making them anxious, confused, and less able to trust their own memory and perception.
Example:
Your spouse begins telling you things that never really happened. For instance, he says that last week he told you he was going to go to the bar with his buddies this
Monday night, but you never remember him telling you that.
Or maybe your boss gets angry because you didn't prepare the report he asked you to. When you remind him that he usually prepares that particular report, he
snaps that he told you to take care of it a few days ago because he was too busy. However, you know he never asked you to do so.
Both of these could be considered
gaslighting.
Gaslight
by LilLit1233 on Aug 30, 2020 04:57:04
When you lie or
manipulate someone, and make them feel crazy for reacting how they react & make them believe their gut isn’t true. You make them feel like their
over reacting once you get them angry, or You get them mad and then make them feel crazy for being mad. Basically When you
Manipulate events and situations to make the victim feel crazy, and switch the blame.
Example:
I was mad at him and he
gaslighted me and turned the situation around on me and made me feel like
my feelings weren’t true And me being mad was wrong !